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Don't time fly when....? Skip this entry
I've had a few sessions that I've not written up but the one at 31 on Saturday deserves a good write up! Playtime started early at 15:00 so there was potential for two and a half hours of play. And I played for all but about ten minutes of them. (Which may be why I now have a cold - I was naked all that time!) I'd pre-arranged to play with Kent Master AKA Master-D and we started with me over his knees for a spanking on my see-thru camo shorts. It started off quite gentle but gradually built up of course. After a while he got me to stand up and he took off my shorts and tied a piece of rope round my cock and balls, which brought Willy to attention - and he stayed hard or half-hard for the rest of the afternoon!
Back over Kent Master's knees for more spanking and then leaning over the back of a chair for swats with a variety of paddles and straps, some of which were seriously challenging. When he suggested we take a break I looked at my watch - forty minutes had flown by. I got dressed and went to get a drink and soon returned for phase two. This consisted of him stripping me naked and tying up my cock again and then leaning me against the wall so he could deal with my back. He was also doing the same for another guy who was stood beside me. I think I was getting more than he was. Again Kent Master started gently but again built up until he was using my heavy flogger and my short cat. No-one else makes either toy hurt quite so much but I knew neither was likely to break the skin so I felt safe. The whipping became very challenging and there were a few times when I was almost about to call a stop - but I was also enjoying it and so was Willy! The only reason I did have to call a stop was my hands were going numb and my arms and legs were beginning to go to sleep as I'd not moved for.... what turned out to be over an hour!
Another drink and then at five I went back and stripped off and Master came over to me and started to play with my tits - which got Willy instantly hard again, as it usually does. Back against the wall for a final half hour of heavy flogging and whipping on my back and also now my butt. He also let a few gentle strokes lash around onto my cock and my belly and chest - that's so erotic! By the time he'd decided I'd had enough and he started playing with my tits again I was so turned on I was close to cumming. He told me to wank, which I did for all of about five seconds, I was so close!
I'm off the America for another SM holiday later this week. I'll report on it when I get home again. Bye for now.
13th September 2003 Overdoing it at 31. Skip this entry
Went to 31 this afternoon, not knowing who was going to be there. With just half an hour to go to playtime the place was pretty empty but it suddenly filled up at about fifteen minutes to go. And at least five Tops I have played with were there! This could be a busy afternoon.
Started play with P who has a borstal strap identical to mine. I got 24 strokes on my white shorts. I love the way P makes each stroke slightly harder than the one before. The last four were really hurting me. Then I found Murray and had a long session with him. Started over his knees, no shorts for a long and very heavy bare-butt spanking. When my butt was red enough for him I was positioned leaning against a bench and he started with six swats each of a load of various paddles and straps he had brought with him. He wasn't pulling his punches and, at the end of this I decided to chill out for a while.
When I went down to the play area again almost nothing was happening except Master D was using three subs in one of the alcoves and had quite a number of appreciative onlookers. P was looking bored so I suggested he gave me another two dozen with the Borstal Strap, this time without the shorts. By now my butt was getting to that slightly numb state so they didn't hurt as much as I was expecting them to. Bit of a danger sign that. Which I ignored!
Over in the corner a very attractive young guy was demonstrating his large collection of Tawses, saying how two identical looking ones can feel so very different. I watched for a while to determine how accurate he was - he looked to be seriously good. I volunteered for six strokes of each Tawse. He had five of them! He wasn't wrong - they all looked pretty similar but they certainly didn't feel it. Each was heavier or more of a stinger than the one before and the final one I had very great difficulty in taking all six strokes. Showing off really! But I paid for it - a little later when I was changing into my street clothes, I noticed a little red spot in the shorts, corresponding with a little centre of pain on my right cheek. It takes a lot to make me bleed and I guess it was that final Tawse. So - at least a week with no play to look forward to. But it was such a fun afternoon!
6th September
2003 Two sessions this week. Skip this entry
Had a session with Mac at his place last Monday (1st September). maybe because it had been a long time since I last played - my pain threshold was very low indeed at the start. I did begin to get into it though. Mac started by using my long dildo and then my biggest one. Neither went all the way as I'd not had any opportunity to practice during the afternoon. Then I got a thorough tawsing which I was finding very hard to take and this was followed by a caning, which was beginning to get a little easier as my threshold started to climb. I got tied up on my back on the bed and Mac used a crop to gently beat my tits and stomach, and even my cock. The blows were not heavy but the sheer quantity of them meant that I was pretty soon squirming as much as I could!
Saturday I went to 31 Club. I was a bit worried about an insect bite on my butt but the general opinion was that this was just outside the "target area". I started with Bob and got twelve swats from his leather strap as a warm up. A little later I got a dozen swats of my "Pittsburg" or "violin" paddle followed by half a dozen stroked of the Dragon cane, all on naked butt.
Then I played with M2 and got a long and hard OTK spanking followed by swats from a couple of leather paddles.
A little later I got a flogging/whipping consisting of twenty five each of my heavy flogger, my short cat and finally my new four-tail whip - which is still very nasty! I still have the marks.
9th August
2003 Two hot sessions at 31Club Skip this entry
This Saturday and last Saturday I've been to 31 Club. The weather has been really hot and humid and the air conditioning at the club has been struggling a bit and I just don't feel horny when its hot and humid. Nevertheless I had some great sessions though all were cut short 'cot I got too hot! Starting with last week, I'd taken a sort-of new toy, my finally finished "Victory Paddle". This is now nice and smooth and varnished and I'd taken it so it could be "christened". The honour fell to Bob who gave me a dozen swats of increasing strength on my white shorts. Even through the shorts the sting was more than I was expecting! It's an interesting implement as it packs a serious sting, but little punch as it is so light.
Next I played with M who had expressed an interest in the new paddle. He had me naked over his knees for a long spanking and then several dozen swats with a couple of leather paddles he had. Then he used my new paddle and wow, did that sting! I think we'd both have liked the session to go on but I, at least, was getting too hot and sweaty for comfort, so we stopped. I didn't play again that afternoon so just chatted upstairs in the bar.
Today was even hotter! But, as I can't go next week I decided to go anyway. Right at the last minute I was asked to do what I call "parish notices". At least the good microphone was there. I was among the first to go down to play but no-one was playing! Alan asked me if I'd like to play and he gave me six swats of his leather paddle on my shorts and another twelve naked. He's only fairly recently started to Top and he's getting much more accurate. Then a couple of guys started to play in one of the alcoves but the Top was being too heavy for the bottom guy and it came to an abrupt halt. I volunteered to play with the Top, John. He got me to lean over the back of a chair and gave me twenty lashes across my butt with a whip, about two feet long and with about a dozen (could have been nine of course!) thin tails. Then the shorts came off and he repeated. The first stroke caught my balls so I brought my legs together for the other nineteen! John then went on to use his paddles, each in sets of twenty. I was beginning to see why his first subject had given up so soon. He was very accurate and very severe! Too severe as I'd not been "warmed up" properly. I had to call a halt after about sixty swats. He asked if I'd find him later and I did agree but I'm ashamed to say that I didn't. It was just too hot for me to get back in the mood. I shall certainly play with him again when its cooler! I did try to play with Gary, from whom I have had some fantastic spankings at the Club in the past. However, it just felt too hard fore me so I called a halt rather before he wanted to stop!
19th July
2003 More Fun at 31! Skip this entry
Knowing that both Bob and R would be at the Club, I could not resist! When playtime started I got Bob's standard warmup of twelve strokes with a borstal strap. They really hurt and also wrapped slightly onto my right hip. Not Bob's fault - the place was pretty crowded. Almost immediately I found R and, over the back of a chair and naked, got a thorough warm up with his leather paddle and a long and heavy belting with his doubled-up belt. I also got an erection - long time since that happened just by being beaten. We decided we wanted to play again at the end of the afternoon so, my butt bright red and feeling rather (no - very!) tender, we agreed to do a grand finale later.
After a drink or two I found Bob again and suggested he use my flogger. Leaning up against a pillar I was given 100 lashes straight off, followed by 20 lashes with my single-tail Horsewhip! I've never taken that many with that whip before and my back was really sore and, I presume, stripey at the end. Oh yes... willie was hard again!
The final session with R was one of the heaviest beltings I've ever had. It was really hurting but, since I was well and truly "flying" I didn't care. The thought "this has to be doing me damage" did cross my mind but I didn't care about that either, I was having so much fun! R seemed to be putting as much effort as he could into each stroke. Then he told me I was going to get three more. These last three were laid on with even more force and hurt like hell - so much that I crash landed again. Some goon had got in his way and the second stroke wrapped badly. As I was putting my kit on again I wisecracked "With friends like you, who needs enemies." For that I had to get naked again and get another three really heavy strokes!
The bruise - caused only by the wrapped strokes it seems - is beginning to fade nicely thanks! But I won't be playing for a while.
12th July 2003 Two great sessions at 31 Skip this entry
When I got to the Club it looked like it was going to be a really quiet afternoon. It was very hot and I guessed (wrongly) that everyone would be out in the sun. Suddenly the place filled up just before playtime. R arrived very late and I was getting concerned he’d not show at all. I was asked to do what I call “parish notices” and, those over with, I went downstairs to see what was what. Got chatting to M who is a good looking top that I played with many years ago and he wasn’t good. But I’ve seen him play recently and decided I wanted to try again so I asked him and we got into a long session mostly involving floggers. He's learned a lot in the couple of years. After about forty minutes my back and butt were, apparently, nicely pink. I only asked to stop ‘cos I was getting very sweaty and also, of course, I needed time to play with R.
Back to the bar for a drink and then back down to find R. We found a suitable alcove and soon I was over his knees naked and being spanked with a leather paddle. It got quite heavy pretty quickly but that was OK 'cos I'd already been warmed up. Then he stood me up and got me to lean over the back of the chair and he used his belt on me, doubled up. I don't know how many I got - maybe a hundred. I was really getting into it when he stopped, announcing he wanted to save me in good order for next week!
5th July 2003
Four sessions since last entry. Skip this entry.
I've been to 31 Club a couple of times since last entry. First time I played with Bob and got, amongst other things one hundred strokes with my heavy flogger straight off. This followed a warm up earlier consisting of 24 with my Borstal Strap and a dozen with Bob's leather strap before that.
Then last week I was staying with Adam in Kent and we decided to go to the Club again where we played, quite heavily I thought, with some of my straps and the Pittsburg Paddle. Back in Kent on Sunday afternoon Adam wanted to play with some whips and canes and we had quite a long session which ended when some nasty weals began to appear on my chest! I've never been whipped that hard on my chest before but it was a real turn on! The weals took almost a week to go completely whereas a couple of cane marks on my butt had gone by Monday evening, Naturally, my back didn't escape treatment but any marks had calmed down by the time I'd driven home. Click here for pix.
Last weekend V came down from Yorkshire to stay for the weekend. I'd been pretty ill most of the week but we decided not to cancel. We played late Friday evening and it was fun session during which I got several assorted beatings and soaked in piss! Not done piss-play for a very long time! Saturday afternoon had me lying on my bench with my legs up in the air attached to chains in the ceiling. Gives ideal access to the butt for both CP work and for play with dildos and plugs. I was able to just take my biggest dildos - not bad going after such a long break from arse-play.
Planning on going to 31 at the weekend. Ron from Australia will be there!
31st May 2003
Heavy session at 31 Club Skip this entry
I don't usually play very heavy at 31 but with R in town I wanted to go further than we were able to last week. When I arrived there were very few people there and I wondered if it was going to be one of those "let's all stand around looking lost" afternoons. But by the time playtime was announced the place had really filled up. The guy with the flogger from last week wasn't there though, which was a shame.
I'd changed into my see thru camo about half an hour earlier so I just went downstairs to see who was doing what to whom. Soon I was approached by a tall guy with white hair who asked if I was ready for a spanking yet. Well I was, so I got a good long OTK warm-up spanking, which is the ideal way, for me, to start the afternoon's session. Soon after that I found R and was bent over the back of a chair for a very long paddling and belting. He used a large leather paddle that I was having problems with. My butt is very small and it was impossible to use it without also hitting either my legs or my lower back, both of which I hate and both of which bruise very easily. But I did get a lot with the belt and the wooden paddle.
Next I went and found Philip who was there with his Borstal strap. He invited me to play but it was too soon after R's paddling so I went upstairs to chill for half an hour. When I went back down I went over to Phillip and got about fifty with the Borstal Strap. They didn't seem as heavy as I'm used to from him so when he asked me if I wanted any more I asked if he was tired. "You want some hard ones?" "Just six to start with." And then I got six of the heaviest strokes I've ever had with a Borstal Strap. Wow they stung. I didn't opt for any more but my tingling butt was now just nicely in need of round two with R.!
R used only his wooden paddle this time and I must have got well over a hundred swats. He was building up the severity all the time but calming down from time to time to give me a bit a rest. Towards the end he was hitting me hard enough to make me shout. But then he suddenly calmed right down and stopped and said he was pretty sure the skin was about to break. It felt to me like it was going to so we decided to call it a day. I could have gone on but if the skin had broken that would jeopardise a session I'm hoping to have after I've driven 600 miles to Scotland. I'll se R again in July anyway.
May 24th
2003 Fantastic sessions at 31! Skip this entry
It looks like I've done nothing for three months! Not
so!
A: I got fed up writing everything up.
B: I have met a
few new Tops who have not given me permission to write sessions up (yet!) and...
C: Nothing extraordinary has been happening (until today) and I was aware
this diary was getting very repetitive.
I've just come back from my annual holiday in Cornwall. Jim from the US came this year and we had some pretty good sessions both down in Cornwall and when we got home. While we were down in Cornwall I got a call from Ron from Australia. He comes to the UK every couple of years and is the best Top with a paddle that I know. (See entry for last time we played.) Last time he was here I'd just had a mini-stroke (TIA) and he didn't want to play.
Anyway, although I'd not planned to go to 31 today I decided I could not pass up on the chance of a session with Ron! I shaved and showered and took the train into London and I arrived at the Club at 15:00 and Ron came in at around 15:20. Playtime starts at 15:30 but I decided to find someone to hand spank me to warm me up first. I approached J and soon remembered why I don't play with him much - he has a very large and heavy hand! Plus I was a little tender from a heavy session with Jim the previous morning. Nevertheless I got J's usual set of 24 with my shorts on (I wore my see-thru camo gear) and another three sets of 24 with them off. I was certainly well warmed up by now and went to find Ron.
I was soon over Ron's knees with my shorts off getting a firm spanking followed by a paddling with a leather paddle and then with a thin wooden paddle. It was really hurting but he was responding by calming it down a bit when it was getting too much. Int his way he was able to take me to far harder intensities than I can normally accept. However, I was having a different problem - the air-conditioning had not been turned on and it was getting very hot and humid. I don't know why but if I get hot and sweaty I completely loose the plot! The session had stopped being any kind of fun for me and I asked to stop. I went and turned the air conditioning on and everyone thanked me and I planned to return to Ron when things had cooled down a bit - environmentally and butt-wise!
I noticed a couple of guys who seemed to be topping together. One had a flogger hooked to his belt which I'd not seen him use yet. I went over and asked him about it and his mate pointed out that it was really meant to be used on the back. I told them I knew that and asked if he wanted to try it on me. We established that I was used to being flogged and that his flogger was heavier than anything I'd tried before. I took off my tee-shirt and he stood me against the wall with my arms out in front of me. He started gently and rapidly increased the intensity. This was a much nastier flogger than I'd anticipated and I was finding it very challenging. His mate kept a hand on my left shoulder - I think so he could judge how I was doing and indicate to the guy who was doing the flogging. At one point I just had to take my hands off the wall and stand up as an indication to stop. One of them said "four more" and I assumed the position again and got four hard strokes which made me shout out. As I turned and started to put my shirt on they said that I'd done really well - about fifty strokes in all - and they joked that I could return for the rest later.
After a long break upstairs to chill out I went back down to the play area and watched Rod dealing with one of the couple I'd just played with. He could take much heavier stuff than me and they only stopped when it looked like the skin was about to break. Ron wanted a break so I wandered around for a bit and then over to the two guys and said "Round two?". They seemed very surprised but agreed and suggested they use their Borstal Strap (identical to my one) as well as the flogger. So I stripped naked and assumed the position leaning over one of the chairs provided for the purpose. I got fifty heavy swats with the Strap on my butt and I became acutely aware that he was left handed! It was a real challenge and I probable would have wimped out if his partner hadn't get his arm over my back, partly holding me down but also somehow providing encouragement. Then I got another fifty stroked with the flogger on my back. He was much more accurate with me in this position but he could also be a lot heavier than before and the last ten were really making me cry out and wriggle! When he'd finished and I stood up they both said my back looked "very pretty" and they hoped that they and I could make it next week.
There was not only fifteen minutes of playtime left so I found Ron and said we'd continue next week. I didn't want to start a scene that would get interrupted and I'd probably had enough for one afternoon anyway. My last few trips to 31 Club have been disappointing - I do hope this one marks a new trend!
February 12th 2003 Heavy play with Mac Skip this entry
A bit of a last minute arrangement. I texted (there - I just verbed my first noun!) Mac around lunchtime to see if he was free and was surprised to get the message back that he wanted me to get to his place for 19:30 that evening. Wasn't sure I could make it but, by postponing a meeting I was able to confirm by 15:00. Got home from work early and decided to take time showering and shaving (pubes included) rather than the usual rush. Glad I took the time, the shave seems to be longer lasting than usual. My instructions were to bring ropes and my leather wrist and ankle restraints. I decided also to take some thin, tight white shorts and I wore a tight white tee and very tight (you could count my change and check my religion!) pale grey Wrangler jeans.
We started with a leather paddle given on the jeans. Since they offer some protection (I needed a slow warm up after all the fun I had in the US last weekend) Mac was able to lay them on quite hard. Everything was in sets of twelve and after three sets the jeans came off and I was over Mac's knees for a hand spanking for a while - I'd forgotten how much that can hurt! After a few more sets of twelve, mostly cane, we took a break and I told Mac that, so far, he'd given me twelve sets of twelve strokes. After the break he decided (though he didn't tell me at the time) to make that up to 25 sets - a grand total of 300 strokes. We've never got beyond 250 before.
Well - we made it! Towards the end Mac was really laying into me with his heavy cane. And I was really enjoying it! Unfortunately, willy chose not to join in the fun but I was really "flying" with the buzz for most of that second half! I'd been a bit worried that I'd still not be able to fully take a heavy caning. How wrong I was!
February 6th - 8th
2003 7464 miles - or - The Great Red Spot Skip this entry
Coming very soon - link to my report on short CP holiday in USA Just need to check it with participants!
February 1st
2003 31 Club again Skip this entry
As of today I was allowed heavy CP again. I think I've been very good, avoiding heavy stuff for three whole months!
So - down to 31 Club to see what I could take. Bob was there and, on this occasion, seemed to be about the only Top there. OK, Master D was there but very early on he got into a scene which I didn't want to interrupt. Bob started by giving me twelve swats with his leather strap, six on my shorts and six on naked butt. A little later I got twelve of each of his two canes and a little after that a flogging with my heavy flogger and then some strokes with my four-tail whip - which really hurt. So much so that I needed to stop. Bob completed the six lashes anyway and suggested he try my single-tail horsewhip. I said I'd try but I have to say the six lashes were ones I didn't enjoy at all. And that was me done! Silly to expect to take so much so soon. When I got home there were weals all over my back and butt - not Bob's fault at all, mine for getting too greedy! I Expect they'll have gone in a day or so.
January 16th
2003 SM Gays Skip this entry
I hadn't planned to go to SM Gays this evening. The theme was "Cock & Ball" and I'm not allowed those activities just yet. However, Jack sent me a text message saying could I go and I decided, at the last minute to head for The Hoist. Nightmare drive down and parked miles away! Didn't play with Jack but Master D was there and invited me to play - the first time I'd had any paddle since last October so it was a bit of a challenge for me. When I got home I was quite badly bruised but they didn't last beyond 24 hours so I guess now I need to keep in practice so I can play again fully in February, as planned.
13th January 2003 First session of the new year with Mac
Mac promised me 250 strokes with the cane! I wasn't too sure about this as it will have been a whole month since having any real CP at all! Still - we went ahead anyway. I was to be naked when I answered the door, wearing just ankle and wrist restraints. We started with a warm up over-the-knees spanking, something we;ve not been able to do for a while. But I reckon, with only a couple of weeks to go before I'm allowed heavy CP again, spanking should be fine by now.
After a thorough warm-up, I had to lean over the back of a chair for the first fifty strokes of the cane. I did find it very hard to cope with but was pleased that I didn't need to wimp out. The second set of fifty were given with a whip across my back but all of the rest were given with the cane. We took a long break after about 150 strokes and we were not sure if we were going to be able to complete the promised 250 as Mac thought my skin was about to break. Well, by judicious "holding back" we did complete all 250 and the session was finished off with a long session of gentle bastinado on my cock with a cane. great fun!
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